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Thursday, May 14, 2026

How to disarm manipulation and gaslighting, personally and politically - Iowa Capital Dispatch

Thousands of President Donald Trump’s supporters storm the U.S. Capitol building following a “Stop the Steal” rally on Jan. 6, 2021 in Washington, D.C. (Photo by Spencer Platt/Getty Images)

We all know that domestic violence is a common occurrence in Iowa and elsewhere, but statistics are sobering, with one every four women having experienced it in their lifetimes. Some 1.3 million women are victims of such violence each year. Women aged 20-24 are at greatest risk.

Tactics of abusers involve manipulation and gaslighting.

According to WebMD, manipulation “is the exercise of harmful influence over others,” with perpetrators attacking another’s mental and emotional states to get what they want. Gaslighting is defined as “an insidious and sometimes covert type of emotional abuse where the bully or abuser makes the target question their judgments and reality.”

We often explore these concepts from an individual and psychological perspective rather than from a political and ethical one. The former remains of great concern, and victims of domestic violence need our support and resources.

But an ethical perspective is key in understanding what is at stake personally and collectively.

To fathom the impact on our psyches, we need to acknowledge the human condition whose dual aspects are consciousness and conscience. Consciousness is awareness of our physical environs, actions and words. Conscience is awareness of right and wrong.

Manipulators seek to obliterate the conscience of...



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